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Characteristics of the Difference Game and Mutuality

Characteristics of the Difference Game and Mutuality

DIFFERENCE GAME MUTUALITY
Think hierarchical equality
See differences and inequality sameness
Images seesaw level field
Leader protector connector
Purpose to maintain one’s familiar image joining with self and others
Method to use all differences to prove inequality look beneath differences to find sameness
Place comfort zone beyond comfort zone
Attitude reject the unacceptable exclusive and judgmental embrace unacceptable inclusive & accepting!
Movement limited expansive
Style hedge and hide passionate and exposing
Goal saftey and survival risking intimacy & living

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